do people not understand that if i’m not bringing something up anymore that i don’t want to talk about it? especially if it’s something i used to talk about all the time. i get the whole asking once about it thing, but if you keep asking and i keep telling you the same answer then you should get the hint. 

so when is my mom going to get that no, i haven’t heard anything from jake and no, i haven’t tried to talk to him and that it’s probably not going to change anytime soon? i don’t think she realizes that bringing it up isn’t making things better. and saying things like “it’s his loss” won’t make it magically fine again. 

give it up already.